Tips, processes and sequences to make change more efficient and long-lasting Our last research is featured in the prestigious The Science of Psychotherapy magazine (September 2020). [Scroll down to download a free copy] The processes analysed in this research were studied in different professional settings and applications. We involved more...
Everyone wants to change or to learn something new, to stop being afraid of or being ashamed for something, to be more constructive, to develop a healthier lifestyle, or simply to learn a new language or useful skill. What all these changes have in common...
Shut in the house for days on end, with nothing to do -or with the opposite- lots to do but lacking the organisation and tools we usually have available. Add to this: a lack of routine, a series of impediments, missing social interactions and their opposite,...
In light of what analysed in previous articles and videos, during the initial phases at the start of any type of behaviour, emotional reaction or a decision, there is a sensory perception -whether internal or external- that plays a key role. The strength and clarity with which...
There are deep connections between the way people speak, think and feel. These go beyond the feeling connected to a specific thought. Rather, we are referring to the coherence that a single thought may have with a wider thought environment, with the contingent situation and...
Interpersonal regulation and its connection to emotions, safety, self-regulation and immune system processes features a series of evolutionary systems that have been refined over time to help contextually manage the present in real-time. One typical example from daily life is provided each time that we...
Article updated, watch all the videos below. Our 'pixels' are a series of short videos (2 to 4 minutes) on a specific subject containing something to think about and/or a practical tip to try out immediately to favour change, health and well-being. [vc_separator type='transparent' position='center' color='' thickness=''...
I had the absolute pleasure and honour of being a guest on The Science of Psychotherapy's podcast! "In this episode (September 2019) Richard [Hill] and Matt [Dahlitz] catch up with Fabio to talk a little about what he has been researching and his integrative perspective and his...
5 minutes twice a day for 3 weeks: this was the commitment requested of participants in the study. We were thus able to analyse the changes and benefits produced by a minimal application of one of the Integrative Sciences’ basic techniques, the Cross Cycles Breathing...
Abstract Our loyal readers know we always check our theories, in order to verify their fundamentals and the effectiveness of some possible applications. This article is about the results of a study that aims at verifying how mind and body mutually influence one another and general daily situations....
Over the holidays there’s more leisure and opportunity to observe other people. In addition to this, we are able to see them outside their usual environment in places like the beach, the mountains, or around cities, far away from the usual settings they live and...
Do you remember subliminal stimuli? They were a big topic of conversation a few years ago! They were described as powerful persuasion and mental manipulation tools… but that wasn’t quite accurate. Today, on the other hand, we prefer to talk about MASKED STIMULI. They are systems that...
Within this article we’ve gathered a series of videos that appear disconnected, but that are actually linked by a single common objective: [vc_separator type='transparent' position='center' color='' thickness='' up='' down=''] that of providing practical tools, suggestions for real-life application and new ideas to drive CHANGE processes, both in...
We all think we’re right; it’s everyone else that’s wrong. However, let’s try asking ourselves these questions… [vc_separator type='transparent' position='center' color='' thickness='' up='' down=''] Is our evaluation of a specific event objective? Is that person trustworthy? How did we become persuaded of this? Who is right...
Article by Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli TRY PUTTING YOUR HANDS TOGETHER As though you were clapping. LIKE THIS: The only difference is that when your hands touch, I’ll ask you to hold that position. This is an interesting test, that we’ve developed and refined over the years. Personally, I use...
Article by Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli Where does a specific behaviour start? How does it come into being? This looks like a simple question, but it really is not! Whether it’s the response to a potentially dangerous stimulus, what we say to someone to motivate them or...
In these 6 videos you will find a description of the 8 stages that compose the Integrative Functional Patterns System. [vc_separator type='transparent' position='center' color='' thickness='' up='' down=''] You will also find introductory references to pre-conditions, external and internal elements, to further analysis and to strategies for intervention. [vc_separator type='transparent' position='center' color='' thickness='' up='' down=''] This article...
Article by Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli Have you ever tried a "fusion experience" with your motorbike, horse, musical instrument or a tool that you use often? [vc_separator type='transparent' position='center' color='' thickness='' up='' down=''] If not, perhaps you have had an experience of watching musicians or sportsmen who...
Evolution, learning and development represent an essential part of our lives, as both individuals and members of society. These phenomena don’t only regard children, but continue—with different characteristics and to satisfy different needs—throughout our life. Curiosity, knowledge and the development of new skills are rooted in...
Motivating people to change is difficult. Sometimes we use thousands of words and try to do everything possible, but things just don’t work. However, there are some communication methods designed to help us with these situations. Being expert at emotions and motivation doesn’t necessarily confer the...
Authors: Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli “Who asks leads” is a slogan that has always had a deep impact on me since my early education. At first I thought it was some sort of provocation, then I figured it was about manipulation, and then I finally understood...
Authors: Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli Sometimes, too much concentration worsens our performance. This is well known by those who start to overthink before an exam, a public speech, a concert or a sports game. This isn’t just a short circuit of the mind, but a much...
By Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli To speak our mind is not always easy. That may be due to many causes, like fear of exposing ourselves, politeness, a willingness to avoid conflicts or gain some advantages – or at least that’s what we hope. Such difficulties may entirely...
Authors: Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli Language, Thinking and Power Are Mutually Influencing in Relationships “How many times do I have to tell you?!” I think this is one of the most frustrating things one could say - not that having it said is much better. This happens...
Here is a second abstract (check here for the first) of our studies in the Real Way of Life research headquarters. This time we wanted to challenge and test the real scientific basis of the “act as if” approach. Many psychological disciplines, as well as counselling...
Just type anxiety, stress, worry, or other similar words in Google and you will find many solutions. Most of them can be easily grouped in: Breathing techniques Evaluation and perception reframing Psychological related Based on personal resources etc. Not to mention all the proposals that suggest...
Authors: Fabio Sinibaldi and Sara Achilli Every year we make resolutions for ourselves, in order to do something better, something important for us… However, we inevitably fail to do so, or, at the best of times, we reach one target out of a thousand. The celebration spirit,...
